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Thursday, Oct 2, 2008
Ok I normaly wouldn't say a story like this but I don't know what to do. I come home from a family member house and I look like complete crap I was sleeping in a pool of my own sweat. So my dad who always has to make fun of me who can never say the right thing says "Did you wash your hair today" my hair for some strange reason matters increadably much to me. I reply yes why do you have to be such a ****(this word was censord but its not even that bad it could be in a PG movie)
and then it happend

Bam A nice slap hits my face and then I see him get up and my mom have this wild look in her eyes and my dad reach for me again as my mom stands in the middle my dad looks like he is going to punch her. So he says some nasty things to her so I take the french frys that I have in my hand and I lob them at his eye he freaks we get into a giant fist fight. So It ends up in my room where he tackles me throws my bass down steps on it and grabs me by my hair has my face like at my knees and then I see my weight underneath my bed. I then Grab the weight and pound the weight into his skinny leg and he screams stop so I say let go and then I do it several more times until he lets go. then I get up he goes across my bed and then my poor mom who looks like she is going to have a heart attack is pushed to the ground by my father she lands on my bass and then we go at it again.

Finaly my dad grabs a suitcase tells my mom you can pay the bills and leaves. I realizing I hate him and never want to see him again so there the one thing he needs for his clients is laying on the ground in my room his cell phone. I then take out my frustration out on the phone as the tears roll down my face because I realize nothing in my house will be the same. My dad will leave and my mom has no money for anything and I have to worry about him showing up again tonight. I don't know what to do I ruiend my life.

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that is a tough one, i had a Step-Dad like that, he never left, but we never got along and it is hard to deal with something like this, my best advice is to leave the house for a few days and stay with a friend or a relative till this all settles down. don't let him know where you are until you feel it is safe.
Posted Oct 2, 2008 9:37 pm PT
Ah man, I've seen my parents fight before but not like this, sure I've seen my dad hit my mom a couple of times back then. I dont really know what to say other than hang on and be happy that your father will no longer treat you horrible no more.
Posted Oct 2, 2008 9:59 pm PT
I'm sorry I really wish I could help but I've never seen my parents even slap each other. Just be glad that he's gone so this can't happen again.
Posted Oct 2, 2008 11:29 pm PT
Aww *hun* Sounds like you're Dad's right nasty. If he does leave though, he still has a legal responsibility to pay maintenance for you so he won't take everything. Hope things get sorted out soon *moar hugs*
Posted Oct 3, 2008 1:22 am PT
Emm... I don't know what to say. Never had that experience before nor I should give any advice. Hard times indeed... Your mom needs you right now... So, stay with her. The best is to call for a close relatives and explain the situation if your mom haven't done so already... Of course, if your mom haven't call a relative and you want to, seek your mom's approval first. Remember, when god closes a door, he will leaves open the window... There's always hope. All the best with regards.
Posted Oct 3, 2008 1:32 am PT
Thomas-Crown is right, there is always hope. Sometimes it gets worst before it gets better.
Posted Oct 3, 2008 5:43 am PT
Wow, Im sorry man. I hope you and your mom are not hurt. I really dont know what to say, dont blame yourself for something your father did to you. This possibly could of happened anytime man, Im sorry to hear this man. All I can say is to like call some of your relatives and explain what happened and maybe you and your mom can stay with them for a little bit until you figure out what to do. Sorry if this didnt help, I wish I could help some how. Take care
Posted Oct 3, 2008 8:43 am PT
man so sorry to hear about that...this is not a fault of your own, it sounds like your dad was just waiting to lose it...i hope everything works out for you and your mom, and just know that tough times only make you stronger, i know ive had my share of tough times and im still here today and probabaly better off from them, even though i would never have wanted it to happen in the first place
Posted Oct 3, 2008 2:52 pm PT
dude, remember he is your dad no matter how much you hate him, your mom loves him. Good luck, hopefully you guys can find some common ground and fix things out at least temporarily.
Posted Oct 3, 2008 8:15 pm PT
Dude, that can't really be your fault alone.

Anyways, you shouldn't worry much, there will always be a brightside to a lot of things.

However, I have no real advice on this subject, its not my expertise.

Good luck, and I hope things get better.

However, when this happened to my cousin, him and his mom stayed out of the house a few days and took their most imporant valuabes, and stayed with a relative. And thats pretty much what happened. His dad eventually got over it, realizing what he had lost, and everything was fine for a while. My dad gets mad at me for my attitude, you just have to learn to stop being such a jerk sometimes. Just try to avoid him as much as possible for the next few days, but make sure he knows you still care about him.

Plus, if it really played out like that, I think there was tension there before, and you couldn't possibly be the only reason.
Posted Oct 3, 2008 9:09 pm PT
Listen: by the sound of it you are NOT the reason, your father is
Sounds like he has anger issues.
Your better off without him and even though you may think you can't cope without him- im sure you'll manage.

Good luck what ever happens... ps if u are a uk resident try contacting the NSPCC helpline.
Posted Oct 4, 2008 10:52 am PT
That sux dude, i dont know what to say. But really, just get your own place if you're old enough and screw everybody else. Get a day job if you don't already have one. save up and become Independent..Thats what i did, and it feels great!!
Posted Oct 4, 2008 12:12 pm PT
**** your dad man, he's the reason, not you. What you should be focusing right now is a job i'm afraid, you're now the man of the house, don't think what kind of job you want, you just need one to pay the bills while you scour for the work you really want.

And hey, if you want to talk to someone about this, i'm here for ya, PM me.
Posted Oct 9, 2008 9:24 am PT
ah man.. thats tough.. i prbably wouldnt cope with it.. ur very brave.
Posted Oct 10, 2008 2:00 am PT
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