Shous, I am not quite sure I understand what you want to know here...

i just want some pointers on what to do if i do happen to go through something like what other people go through.

I talked about that in one of my life lessons way last year. I was mentality and emotionally abused as a child by my mother. She was a prescription drug junkie. It finally killed her when she was only 44 years old. From the time I was very young I was made to take care of the house, lie for her about the drugs, all sorts of things. I was 14 years old when she died. It took me many years to forgive her and then to forgive myself for the way I felt about her, but I did. I believe it has helped me to be more generous to others and that is why I try to help young people so much. There was no help for me when I was that age, but now there are all sorts of places that can help kids in this sort of situation.

I won't say no, and I won't say yes... but listen to what scatha has to say I'd say just try to hang strong, and get help if needed... or something...

kk. thnx scatha.