Asylum 3 vs Wedding!!

Terrible, terrible news today. My uncle is getting married...but the date is the same weekend as the totally awesome asylum 3 convention! I am totally stuck on which one to go to! This years Asylum looks like its going to be the best yet and the guest list is amazing but then it would be so nice to see my little cousins again and have the family altogetherat the wedding.

I have planned asylum for like 6 months now, i've got my art entries, vid entry, hotel booked, photos bought, and accepted the fact i am going alone and that i am perfectly capable finding my way around birmingham.

oh what to do? Its not like i can ask them to change the date of their wedding...or can I?...no, no i cant i know.