Sunday, Aug 26, 2007
About 24 hours ago, Sharky's dad was speaking lucidly again, even though he's now in a wheelchair. The doctors told him and Sharky's step-mum the situation, which they conveyed to us.
Even if Sharky were to wake up out of his coma (an event that the doctors said would be almost impossible) they said he would have severe brain damage. The reason for this being that Sharky's dad took the brunt of the cars colliding, but the Stop Sign crushed Sharky's head far worse.
They both asked us to leave, and said they'll call us back when they decided what to do. We left, but everything seemed to have no meaning as we just waited idly for something to happen. In about an hour, we got a call, which was from Shadow. It was exceptionally hard breaking the news to him because he and Sharky have been friends basically since they were in diapers, to the point where they're more like brothers.
We waited for several hours, even through the night. None of us felt like sleeping. Eventually, at about 1:30 am, we got the call from Karen telling us to come to the hospital, and to bring Sharky's brothers (Mike, Joey and CJ).
When we got there, they told us that they knew Sharky wouldn't have wanted to continue living if he was unable to live a full life. They told us that they had decided to cut the life support.
While we obviously weren't happy about it but we knew it was the right decision. You guys knew Sharky; he was all about having as much fun at any one time as he could, about enjoying life to the max. We all knew that he wouldn't have wanted to be a vegetable.
At 12:11 pm (chosen because apparently it was the time of his birth) on the 27th of August, 2007, Ryan Joesph Sharkler was pronunced dead. With him at the time were his father, step-mother, brothers, sister, sister in law (Jay, Kate and Alex all flew up to be with them at the time) and his friends. However, two of the people he would have wished could be there (his mum and his best friend) weren't. Hopefully, wherever he is now, he and his mum are reunited.
Even if Sharky were to wake up out of his coma (an event that the doctors said would be almost impossible) they said he would have severe brain damage. The reason for this being that Sharky's dad took the brunt of the cars colliding, but the Stop Sign crushed Sharky's head far worse.
They both asked us to leave, and said they'll call us back when they decided what to do. We left, but everything seemed to have no meaning as we just waited idly for something to happen. In about an hour, we got a call, which was from Shadow. It was exceptionally hard breaking the news to him because he and Sharky have been friends basically since they were in diapers, to the point where they're more like brothers.
We waited for several hours, even through the night. None of us felt like sleeping. Eventually, at about 1:30 am, we got the call from Karen telling us to come to the hospital, and to bring Sharky's brothers (Mike, Joey and CJ).
When we got there, they told us that they knew Sharky wouldn't have wanted to continue living if he was unable to live a full life. They told us that they had decided to cut the life support.
While we obviously weren't happy about it but we knew it was the right decision. You guys knew Sharky; he was all about having as much fun at any one time as he could, about enjoying life to the max. We all knew that he wouldn't have wanted to be a vegetable.
At 12:11 pm (chosen because apparently it was the time of his birth) on the 27th of August, 2007, Ryan Joesph Sharkler was pronunced dead. With him at the time were his father, step-mother, brothers, sister, sister in law (Jay, Kate and Alex all flew up to be with them at the time) and his friends. However, two of the people he would have wished could be there (his mum and his best friend) weren't. Hopefully, wherever he is now, he and his mum are reunited.
Comments
Posted Aug 27, 2007 12:15 am PT
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dont know what 2 say......
well...i guess he is going 2 b better that way.....
dont know what 2 say......
well...i guess he is going 2 b better that way.....
Posted Aug 27, 2007 1:36 am PT
he was a great guy...and will be sorely missed
Posted Aug 27, 2007 1:47 am PT
He was a fantastic person. I can't believe it! He was absolutely great - and now....... As said before, at least he doesn't have to go through anymore pain. Oh God.... he will be missed.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 2:17 am PT
I'm so sorry to hear that, what a difficult decision to have to make.
My thoughts are with you and his family.
My thoughts are with you and his family.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 2:32 am PT
Can't believe such a lively person is gone.
He will definitely be missed, from me anyway.
He will definitely be missed, from me anyway.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 2:41 am PT
I can't believe that this has happened. I know that a person of that great a magnitude is in a better place. I'll miss such a great friend such as Sharky because he had outstanding characteristics that I learned from.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 3:30 am PT
Posted Aug 27, 2007 3:38 am PT
This is so tragic
Posted Aug 27, 2007 3:47 am PT
How sad and difficult for everyone in his family and his friends. I never knew Sharky (Ryan) and didn't even get to know him here on TV.com. Unfortunately the only exposure I got to him was in his horrible accident and death.
May you rest in peace, may you know that you touched lives and will be missed and be assured that your memory will be kept by those whose world is a better place for having known you.
May you rest in peace, may you know that you touched lives and will be missed and be assured that your memory will be kept by those whose world is a better place for having known you.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 4:10 am PT
OMG, I haven't been around much so I missed the original news. I'm lost for words. You guys are great for letting us all know, it must have been really tough for you to put into words but I think Sharky would've been very grateful. My thoughts and best wishes go to you and his family, the time ahead is going to be really hard.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 6:40 am PT
You're going to be missed Sharky. History
Posted Aug 27, 2007 7:01 am PT
Even though I didn't know him,I will miss him.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 8:08 am PT
I havent tracked his blogs for long, but I will miss him
Posted Aug 27, 2007 8:12 am PT
I only knew him from TV.com, but I felt like i personally knew him, so he's gonna be really missed.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 8:22 am PT
Two wonderful people gone in one year. Such a tragedy. I wished I had gotten to know him. For all the people who loved him, I will think about you.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 1:43 pm PT
im very sorry for your loss. he's with god now.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 3:27 pm PT
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Even though I never knew him, I'd like to pay my respects. I never thought I'd se a day like this.
Even though I never knew him, I'd like to pay my respects. I never thought I'd se a day like this.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 3:56 pm PT
Oh man, I never got to meet this guy. Well he most definitely is in a better place and I'll mention him in my next prayer for sure...R.I.P Sharky...
Posted Aug 27, 2007 4:40 pm PT
Posted Aug 27, 2007 5:07 pm PT
I would like to pay my respects. RIP.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 5:08 pm PT
Even though I never even knew him, i'm still crying. i hope up there is an internet so he can read all of these nice comments from everybody
Posted Aug 27, 2007 6:04 pm PT
I'm also going to pay my respects. Even though I didn't know him, hearing about a person's death is sad. I know all his friends and family will miss greatly. RIP Sparky.... Hope you're in a better place now.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 6:09 pm PT
I'll raise a glass to his memory and drain it dry in his name, he deserved more time, but he lived what he had to the full.
To those he loved and who loved him, my heartfelt sorrow and thoughts.
To those he loved and who loved him, my heartfelt sorrow and thoughts.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 7:32 pm PT
I never even knew Sharky, and I find it so incredibly sad that I only knew him from his death. He seemed like such a great person.
It's so terrifying how a person can just all of a sudden die, but remnants still remain. ive read all of his blogs now, and even if I never knew him, I'm still crying. So young....so full of life. It never should've been this way. Just like every other innocent person killed for no reason at all.
Moral of the story?
dont drink and drive.
remember Sharky.
live life as it's meant to be lived, because we all know that it's far too cruel.
-Angel
It's so terrifying how a person can just all of a sudden die, but remnants still remain. ive read all of his blogs now, and even if I never knew him, I'm still crying. So young....so full of life. It never should've been this way. Just like every other innocent person killed for no reason at all.
Moral of the story?
dont drink and drive.
remember Sharky.
live life as it's meant to be lived, because we all know that it's far too cruel.
-Angel
Posted Aug 27, 2007 8:28 pm PT
I didn't know him, but this is a very sad loss for his family and friends. My condolences to all who knew him.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 8:38 pm PT
It's a shame wish I could've know him rip sharky
Posted Aug 27, 2007 8:42 pm PT
Rest in peace Sharky.
Posted Aug 27, 2007 9:21 pm PT
Holy Crap, I just read through some of Sharky's stuff and he sounds like a totally kick ass dude! I'm SO sorry for your loss!!!
Posted Aug 28, 2007 12:12 am PT
Well, this brings back horrible memories. Three friends of mine have now died because of drink driving, even if I only knew Sharky via this site, two in the last few weeks. So long Sharky, your insightful and hilarious comments will be missed.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 12:27 am PT
Oh my gosh, thats horrible! I'va always wondered why people can be so stupid and drink drive!
I'm so sorry for his loved ones loss. All his loved ones will be in my prayers tonight.
I'm so sorry for his loved ones loss. All his loved ones will be in my prayers tonight.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 1:05 am PT
This is terrible. Rest in Peace mate.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 1:42 am PT
R.I.P. Sharky
Posted Aug 28, 2007 2:16 am PT
I never knew Sharky, and only found out about him in Siberian142's blog posted after this one, I'm sure he was a great friend to everyone, my thoughts, love and respect are with his family right now. Rest in peace, Sharky
Posted Aug 28, 2007 2:46 am PT
I never knew who Sharky was. It's a shame too because he seems like a really nice guy. I heard the news from minerva73 and Dirk4MVP's blogs. I am so sorry this happened.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 9:25 am PT
Rest in peace, Sharky. My thoughts are with you.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 1:15 pm PT
Just know him from a few comments. However, God bless his family during this time of loss. RIP Sharky
Posted Aug 28, 2007 1:31 pm PT
Rest in peace
This is really tragic. I don't know what I'd do if something like this happened to my family.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 2:13 pm PT
Sharky be the best damn angel you can be. Treat God and Jesus with respect
. Seriously, I'll miss you. Bye.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 2:25 pm PT
Rest in Peace... My thoughts to all the friends and family.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 2:50 pm PT
I didn't know Sharky, but he sounds like a truly awesome person. My thoughts are with his friends and family. Rest in peace, Sharky.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 3:27 pm PT
ddin't know him but i gues alot of people will miss him
Posted Aug 28, 2007 4:26 pm PT
Like many other comments, I did not get to know him, and unfortunately, the first time I hear something about him, it happens to be his death. I can feel tears starting in my eyes, but they stay there. I know he is in a better place now.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 7:43 pm PT
My Thoughts and Prayers are with Him and All who called him Family & Friends.
I can tell He Will be Missed.
I can tell He Will be Missed.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 9:12 pm PT
God Speed Sharky. Whenever someone dies like this they die to soon. I've buried two friends that have died due to drunk driving accidents and my wife, as a nurse, has cared for dozens that were in Sharkey's condition. My prayers go out for him, his family and his friends. God Speed.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 10:00 pm PT
Posted Aug 28, 2007 10:34 pm PT
I'll think of you when I see Foo Fighters at the L.A. Invasion.
Posted Aug 28, 2007 11:13 pm PT
Posted Aug 28, 2007 11:24 pm PT
Its too depressing to come on this site
Will miss him
Posted Aug 29, 2007 6:53 am PT
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