I just found out that one of my friends from high school got hit by a car on Tuesday.
She graduated in the same year as me, but went to JMU so I haven't seen her in a while...but my sister is still at the school, and the news is being passed around there...she just called me to tell me. ![]()
Apparently she was walking across the street of the campus when it happened, and the accident left her in critical condition.
She's in the hospital now and I think she's stable...but my sister told me something that the newspapers haven't said, which is that she'll almost definitely have lasting severe brain damage when/if she recovers.
I can't get any more details, though, which is really frustrating. From what I've heard, she should live, but her condition is still listed as critical so I don't know...critical but stable? The "critical" part just sorta sticks out in my mind...![]()
It's just so surreal...she was a dancer, always so energetic and alive, and now she's laying in a hospital bed...it just seems so random and out of the blue. Why did she deserve that? I'm just having trouble grasping everything.
I mean, she signed my yearbook telling me she wants to see me soon...not knowing what would happen...*sigh* The world is just so mean and unpredictable.
Apparently, the teachers were all crying in school - she's the daughter of one of the math teachers, and everyone loved her there.
Sorry for the depressing blog, but I can't talk to people back home who knew her, and I'm away from everyone now.
I just had to get all of this out. ![]()
I promise a happier blog soon...![]()
Comments
Lizzie: You don't have to say anything to comfort me, it's just nice that you left a comment.
Lucy: Thanks for the comment.
So I really hope your friend comes out okay.
between all your classes and work you have enough stress. But to find out that a friend was hurt, without fully knowing the extent of injuries, is just so frustrating and painful. I am so sorry you are going through this, and you don't really have anyone closer by to talk to.
And never apologize for needing to speak your mind, or getting some emotional upheaval off your chest. True friends will support you in good times and bad. I'm just extra sorry that there have been more bad times than good so far this year.
Take your time to work though this. And I HOPE that you do not have mono. Unfortunately, if you experience it, you'll know what I feel like every day with the chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia, and I don't wish that on anyone. But if it turns out you do indeed have mono, just try to take it easy and know that you WILL feel better. Try your best to rest it out (that's really all you can do).
::: sigh ::: Life is indeed unpredictable, but I truly wish only the best for you, and for those you care about.
**** hug hug hug **** sending all my love your way!
Shazz: You always leave the best comments!
supering: Thanks SO much for your comment.
I hope you are feeling better and that maybe you just had a cold and not mono. Just rest and take it easy and your body will heal.
Lizard971
Unfortunately not much to say to comfort you... first I suck at that and 2... not much to say I guess.
The question "why" has no answer that we know. Life is life and unpredictable, that's why you have to make the most out of it. big hug