Unfortunately, even though Gamespot is friendlier than Youtube or any other similar site, there are places here where people just won't give you respect no matter what. I have been facing this problem tons of times on the Pokemon Sapphire board. Among my recent attendance, every time I give out helpful information to people that need the help, I receive constant negativity from the non-newbies and it causes my blood to boil. I can normally deal with people like these, but when it just constantly keeps going, it's almost like I am dealing with some real trolls with no feelings there, and I do get offended easily. I haven't participated in that board for a year and a half, but as far as I know, the negative vibes that hovers over it has not changed a bit and probably never will.

Also, that board has been receiving less topics ever since two years ago, and this is probably the reason. Two years ago, I remember that board had as much as six pages worth of help topics and similar topics. Flaming definitely brings the frequency of activity down, and it can make anyone burn in rage. However, it happens everywhere, and even though it is kind of fun to read that stuff, when you're involved, it's definitely no fun whatsoever. In a way, I feel like I should do something to keep this from happening like reporting this behavior, but I don't squeal. I know I should let it go, but unfortunately since I am a girl, it's much harder to forget things like this.

Fortunately, not all boards are "flammable" like that. I am happy to be part of some organizations with very friendly people that give respect no matter what kind of information a person brings, and if he/she is correct or not about it. Not everyone can be correct at everything all the time, but positive criticism helps us more if we can withstand it. I admit I am not always right about some things, but I do try to explain something to the best of my knowledge, even if it doesn't exactly make sense. Sometimes, the message has to be dug in deep enough to have a better understanding.

So, for all my buddies out there, if you have not dealt with people like this yet, be prepared when you do. No one will ever win a flame war, but if/when you do get involved, get out of it as soon as you can.

Sorry about this, but right now I feel angry from what I experienced just a little while ago on the Pokemon Sapphire board and I hope you understand. Thanks.