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Sunday, Jul 5, 2009

So, i sent my friend a message on facebook yesterday basically saying hi, how are you, haven't spoken in ages, what have you been up to? That kind of thing. I got my reply in the inbox this morning. This is what it reads (and yes, her spelling is bad):

"ok so th reson we havent spoken is tht i feel i need a brek - im sorri but if im gunna spend 2yrs in a form wiv u nd possibli lessons ontop of tht i reli need a break this summa i dnt mean 2 sound mean its jst how i feel so basicli wat im sayin is tht im avoidin u soz but i jst need 2 do my own thing 4 a while soz 4 n e hurt caused but n e ways tnx nd hav a gd summa"

And I feel like I've been kicked in the guts. She can shove her 'brek' up her a**e.

So I'm just not gonna reply. If she wants to be childish, its her choice. I will rise above it. But to be honest, that message is just rude and cowardly. I can't believe it. It's ridiculous. And i know its not me overreacting.

And this is after she told me she feels awkward when i talk about my brother, making me feel i couldn't talk about him in case it bothered her. And after she sent a message to a guy on facebook saying that another friend fancied him. Behind her back. The only reason she found out was because he told her about it.

But hey, whatever. I have other friends. Friends who aren't gonna do anything quite so b**chy

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Try a levitating chair: it'll help you rise above everything.



The normal reaction to finding out your gonna spend two years in a class with a friend is to squee and hug. Or hug and squee. But definitely one of the two; the whole point of friendship is you like spending time together - at least I think it is, I'm not very good at I myself. So no, you're not overreacting.



Your brother has the potential to make any of us feel awkward - worried that we're gonna say something stupid or insensitive. And self-centred people--the kinda person who's always in worse mess than you--are gonna feel put out that they can't trump your difficulties. So this friend sounds a bit like that.



The second half of the penultimate paragraph went a bit Vicky Pollard. But stick with the levitating chair - just tie helium balloons to any deck chair.



Torchwood tommorow.
Posted Jul 5, 2009 11:35 am PT
lol! thanks, you managed to make me smile! *searches for balloons*

and yay, torchwood today!
Posted Jul 6, 2009 3:53 am PT
what a b*tch!! yeah stuff her and stick with friends that aren't so mean and of corse Torchwood! bring on 9pm!! :0)x
Posted Jul 6, 2009 4:52 am PT
Eugh. Sorry to hear about your friend acting like that. And you're definiely not over-reacting. One of my former friends once chucked a hissy fit because she didn't feel that a pair of Chuck Taylors and a watch wasn't a good 18th birthday present. The friendship ended there. And to top it off... the moron gave the friend in question $50 as a present. So I've been there and done that. Haven't spoken to her since that, and that was 5 years ago. But don't worry about this person. You'll meet new and better friends. You know, friends who are happy to spend 2 years with you in class
Posted Jul 6, 2009 5:10 am PT
illegalferret: Thanks! and yay!

punknerd: sorry to hear that, sounds pretty out of order! and yeah, i have far better friends than her! thanks!
Posted Jul 6, 2009 5:39 am PT
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