I felt like for the longest time I was trapped in a shell, waiting to breakthrough then I did last year. About this time i came out well my friend helped me through this. So I have to thank her because if it wasn't for her I would still be stuck in my shell. Do you ever get that feeling that people, no matter what your descision's are in life they won't like it? Well for the longet time in my life I felt like I had to impress people but some still weren't happy. Now I don't give a crap what people think about me. I know what choice I made and im sticking by it. I feel though that I have been harsh for sometime towards people that were there for the longest time. I am sorry for that, I was basically changing my ways and in the process it kinda stung some people. They didn't understand why I was now gay I told them this was my life sty.le now, they still try to say that i will go to hell for my choice.
I am tired of empty threats, I want to be happy not be something I am not. I feel happier and so much spunkier lol. There is one person who doesn't want to believe that im gay and that is my mother. I will have to one day just sit with her and be nice about it and tell her that there is just nothing she can to do. Im me and this is me 
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So there ya go if u didnt know i was gay here it is. Thanks for reading..
Questions..
1. Has anyone in your life, criticized you for your descision's in life?
2. If you had a secret in your life, and you wanted to let it out who would you tell?
3. Have you ever or do you know a friend that is gay and has he or she been, criticized for her or his descision's?
4. Do you support the gay community?
5. Do you think its wrong for others to be gay if yes then why?
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2. My mom and my good friend.
3. Not recently.
4. I can't really say. I'm a bit on the neutral.
5. This explains the 4th question. It's a sexual preference and a lifestyle, and I'm okay with that, just like I'm OK with people who are straight or bisexual. So I don't think it's wrong. I still respect them just like any other human being.
.1. YES! Ofcourse. Primarily for choosing all of ppl instead of just a group...
2. Depends. If youre talking on being gay then i'd try to ask myself, if i'm sure then id say it, if not then i'd think something else is bothering me and my secret is only a getaway from some other problem
3. I know ppl, I have one gay friend that i can remember. And yes they have been criticised, yet I learned that they feel more confused when they arent criticised 0_0...
4. & 5. I dont think tere are rules in life by which something is cathegorically true or false. I personalyl do not understand gays, but have no hate agaisnt them, its a matter of personal opinion i guess. As for their comunity, well... i support ppl who want tolerance, but idk about the comunity depends on how far it goes, just like a comunity of, persay, womans rights or hippies revolution...
2. No one.
3. I know a guy who's gay and yes sadly.
4. I don't mind them.
5. No, you have a choice to be what you want to be/
1. Yep, many times, but I don't let it get to me anymore.
2. No one, it wouldn't be a secret then.
3. I don't have friends who are homosexuals, but I know people who are, and they're always criticized.
4. ...half and half
5. Not exactly; I got mixed thoughts on this issue.
1. Of course my parents.
2. I don't hide any secrets in my life.
3. No I haven't.
4. I support them as it is hard for them to be accepted.
5. No everyone is entitled to their own freedom.
Wow, that was a really deep blog. Can't say I agree with it but I applaud your commitment on speaking the topic.
As for the questions
1 - People have always criticized me!
2 - I would always tell my friends but I had the wrong type of friends.
3 - I think I have a friend that might be gay or very metrosexual, but it doesn't change my views about him.
4 - No…
5 - I think it's wrong but so many people suggest it's alright to be gay because it's their life choice. I believe in the philosophy of One Man - One Woman, our dependency to survive relies in other sexes, not just one, and any sort of science to change that is immoral.
2. My mom or sister maybe.
3. I've known a couple of people and haven't really heard any criticizism, at least not while I'm around.
4. I don't really support any community, except maybe the cat community.
5. No, you're free to choose to be whoever you want to be and no one should be able to tell you otherwise.
1. Not openly but I guess so. I never listen though, I’ve always known what I wanted and I simply went for it. I don’t try others to do as I want them to do, so I don’t let anyone boss me either.
2. I don’t know, I’m a pretty secretive person and really jealous of my intimacy. I don’t have anyone I tell anything to. I guess I would say it out loud to myself.
3. I do, but luckily they never paid much attention.
4. I don’t support them actively, same as I don’t support heteros. Bet and let be.
5. Of course not, what kind of a question is that?
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2. If you had a secret in your life, and you wanted to let it out who would you tell? I would tell my cats, they can't speak. And I'd tell God, he is the only one that would help me out and to deal with it. Humans are just too weird.
3. Have you ever or do you know a friend that is gay and has he or she been, criticized for her or his descision's? I have many friends who are homosexual. I don't know of one who has been criticized, since I don't know who they interact with everyday.
4. Do you support the gay community? I'd have to say no.
5. Do you think its wrong for others to be gay if yes then why? Due to my experience around some folk, like the other posted stated I'm a one woman/one man person.
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Personally, I think public displays of affection are wrong and nasty, so I would say any type of such action is wrong and nasty. However, what goes on behind doors or in the household cant possible be wrong in this case, so I guess, I dont think itis wrong for others to be gay however, like heterosexual couples, no kissing or other displays of affection in public.
Lastly, unfortunately, politically, I do not support any "social community" related items on the agenda, since military, nationalism, and scientific progress, and economy are of utmost concern. I think this is the longest posts Ive ever made on your blog posts, lol.