After some time you will percieve the subtle difference between give a hand and to help a soul.
And then you learn that to love doesn't mean support and that company not always means security. You start to learn that kisses are not contracts and that presents are not promises.
You start to accept your defeat in life with your head up and looking ahead of you with an adult smile and not with the sadness of a child. And you learn to build up all your paths today, because tomorrow's path is very uncertain and the future has the habit to fall in the void.
After a time you learn that the sun will burn you if you get exposed too long and you learn that doesn't matter how much you value yourself, some people just won't care about you. And you accept that doesn't matter how good a person is, this person will hurt you and you will need to forgive him/her.
You learn that just talking you can ease griefe. You discover that takes years to build up trust but just mere seconds to destroy it. That you can do o say somthing in a second that you will regret the rest of your life.
You learn that true friendship keeps growing even in the distance and that what it really matters is not what you have in life but who you are in this life, and that good friends are the family we choose.
You learn that we don't have to change our friends if we understand that friends can change and appreciate that you and your friends can do anything or nothing at all but still have good moments together.
You discover that those you love most can have a short life and that's why we should always left them with loving words, because it could be the last time we see them.
You learn that circunstances and the enviroment can have an influence in our lifes but we are responsible for ourselves.
You start to learn that we shouldn't make comparitions between ourselves but with the best we can be.
You discover that it takes long to be the person you want to be. That time is short.
Your learn that doesn't matter where you arrived but where are you going, but if you don't know where to go, anyplace can be of use.
You learn that or you control your acts or they will control you and thatto be flexible doesn't mean to be weak or not to have personality because doesn't matter how delicate or fragil a situation can be there will always be two sides.
You learn that Heroes are those who made what was necessary facing the consequences.
You learn that patience requires a lot of practice.
You discover that sometimes who you most expect to hurt you when you are down is one of the few who will help you to keep going.
You learn that maturity has more to do with the kind of experience you had and you learned with them than with how old you are.
You learn that there's more on you of your parents that you want to admit. You learn that you never should say a child that dreams are nonsense, there's nothing more humiliating and it would be a real tragedy that they would believe it.
Your learn that when you are irascible you have the right to be, but nothing gives you the right to be cruel.
You discover that just because someone doesn't love you like you want doesn't mean he/she doesn't love you with all their soul because there's people that love us but doesn't know how to show it or to live it.
You learn that not always is enough to be forgiven sometimes you will have to forgive yourself.
You learn that with the same strictness you judge you will be judge someday.
You learn that doesn't matter how many pieces you heart has been broken, the world won't stop until you recover yourself. You learn that time is not something you can turn back.
So plant your garden and decorate your soul instead of waiting that someone brings you flowers. And learn that you really can get through anything after thinking that you cant't.
