Hello everyone!!

i'm so sorry i havent been on for awhile.... i been busy with work!!!

This entry is actually dedicated to a friend of mine. Hopefully it will be of use to all of us, especially me.

What you should NOT do when people hurt you

When people hurt your feeling, calling you names, what would you feel. Definitely rock bottom down. Well, we are human, and it would be very weird if you don't feel a thing. "Why do people have to say such things?" I can very well say that each of us have or will meet this type of people in our life. The type of people who joke around by hurting other people. And when we say that that is just cruel, they insist that they were just joking. and that we should have sense of humor. The funny thing is, when the joke is on them, they are not that humorous at all.

Don't we all knew this type of people at least once in our life?

What should we do? I don't exactly know. Everyone had their own way of dealing with them. But I know exactly what we shouldn't do...

1) Never run away from them

There will be millions of people like this around the world. Yes, believe me... if you think he is bad, you ain't seeing anything just yet. There are people even worse and they are all around us. If you give in and run away from the first person, I can assure you lots more will be heading your way. and you will spend your life running.

So be strong. do your very own research on how to deal with him. Either speak to his face that you hated when he make fun of you, or just treat him as invisible man (my favorite). It's your choice. But never run away... if not, you will be running all your life.

2) We should never let this people affect our life.

if you are mad at something, don't punish everything else but that thing. Why should you hate yourself? Why should you change? Why do you have to feel miserable for what he did or said?

There are many more important people, worthy of our tears. worthy of our attention like our parents, best friends, and even spouse. These are the people who we deserve our attention, should be our reason for creating or ending a blog. NOT the person who hurt us. So the next time we are going to be hurt by these people, just remember that they are not worth the agony.

See you all soon and as always Take Care and thanks for reading !

----- Personal Note ---------
There's a quote from Princess Diary that I remember. "You can only be hurt if you allow it to hurt". Just ponder about it... we can never control people's mouth. So we should always make a concious decision to NOT allow the insult hurt us. I know it's easier said than done. But seriously it works. Helped me through a lot of rough time.

More & Less

Most of life's problem can be settled by the keyword "more and less". Hopefully this list will help elaborate the idea.

How to have a a healthier body?

• Less unhealthy food, more exercise

How to get things done?

• Less idling, more systematic work done

How to be more understanding?

• Less talk, more listening

How to be a happier you?

• Less negativity, more positivity

How to become rich?

• Less expenditure, more income

How to have a meaningful life?

• Less you, more others

How to achieve dream?

• Less dreaming, more action

How to excel in exam?

• Less wasting time, more study

How to be successful?

• Less mistakes, more results

How to live longer?

• Less dying, more living

/end list

You may be saying... Duh! But seriously when you think about it, it does make sense. It all boils down to these two term, more and less.

Allow me to explain. Let's take example 2 - How to get things done. Don't you think that the only thing that deteriorate our productivity is procrastination and lack of system? If we can minimize procrastination and build a more systematic way of doing things, basically nothing will stop us from getting things done.

Once we know this, we must go deeper, and ask how exactly can we reduce procrastination? What other system can we apply? Unfortunately the answers to that must be researched ourself.

So, what's the importance of knowing this?

Guess what, even in its general form, we are actually halfway from solving our problems. We already know where to start. And knowing where to start is basically a solution to every problems on earth.

I laughed out loud when I first saw this cartoon. The face expression for the rhino and the cow is priceless, with the rhino looked annoyed and the cow looked satisfied eheh

The moral of the cartoon is self explanatory, but what I'm trying to highlight is just the importance of choosing a friend. I believe that we have to be very selfish when it comes to choosing friends. There are millions of people around the globe, Millions! We can't be friend to all of them now, can we? So how do i choose my friends?

• Support me when I'm down
• Smile for me when I'm up there

You turn to your family for unconditional love. You turn to your spouse for companionship and support. Imagine having 10-20 people who cares for you sincerely (love), accompany you when you needed them the most, for example when you are crying at your mother's funeral (companionship) and offering help when you hit rock bottom (support). Now those are your true friends Please appreciate them with the same manner they appreciated you. You'll do fine.