Here's how everything went, i'll group the peopole and then make a timeline

THE WOMEN STAYED IN THE KITCHEN/FAMILY ROOM/SITTINGROOM AND TALKED

THE MEN SOMETHING IN THE LIVINGROOM

THE KIDS AGED 4-12 PLAYED IN THE BASEMENT PLAYROOM, fell asleep there around 1030

KIDS AGED 2-3 PLAYED IN EMMA'S ROOM/WATCHED TV IN THE FAMILY ROOM-slept in Emma, Amy and Ethan's rooms around 945

KIDS UNDER 2 YEARS SAT WITH THEIR MOTHERS slept at normal time for them in the ofice

So time line time

5:00 My family arrives and helps setup

540 My husband's family comes and helps too

600: Guests start comming

657: Last guests(Gina and Frances) arrive

730: Dinner in dinning room, Men in livingroom, kids on mini tables in the connected kitchen

8:00-1100 Movies, talking and sleepinng

1150: All awake gather in living room

1159 Countdown

12: Happy new year

party and either stay up or sleep

...

600 First Guests leave

640: My sisters go and get BK, Mcdonalds for part of breakfast AND My friends, lauretta and Fran and Judyand Rhonda go to some cvs place and get milk and cereal and frozen stuff (Barbra was cleaning the dining room table with me, my husband's family, Kiliana and some football friends wives(friends i inherited) and some work friends or theirwives)

700 Start getting ready

730 Breakfast

...

2:00 All guests leave