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Thursday, Jul 5, 2007

How many of your friends from elementary school do you still talk to or see on a regular basis? My answer: None. That saddens me because I had a lot of great friends when I was a kid, and I miss them. But families move, parents divorce, kids switch schools and some things just fall through the cracks.

But not everyone apparently...you can't keep a good Jew down. I have one friend who I've known since I was at least 6 or 7, since the times we were gluing popsicle sticks together into Jewish stars. We met at a camp and also knew each other from a Jewish conference we attend once a year. That's it, just that once. Not including the 2 or 3 years we missed since then, for various reasons and guilt on both our parts. And every year, those 4 days would fly by and we'd always be so sad to leave each other. We'd have hung out together other times during the year, except we lived 2 hours apart...which in kid years may as well be on the other side of the world because you know your parents will never drive you. By the time we were teenagers and picked up on the IM craze, we had grown apart a tad...I like to call those "The Lost Years." Then we finally reunited... even though we are complete and total opposites.

Just how opposite can you be, I wonder. She is a petite, feminine, giggly, fun-loving little girl and her favorite color is, yep you guessed it, pink. Note the font in honor of her- you didn't think I'd choose that on my own, did ya? ) She is also a myspace junkie, and you all know how I feel about myspace. I am a bitter, cynical, sarcastic tomboy, often referring to myself as a grumpy old man to describe my personality and behavior, with punky hair and my favorite color is black. I am a tv.com junkie. We look like we couldn't possibly be friends. And yet, I love her. She also just started reading my blogs and yes, SHE LOVES THEM. Proof right there we were meant to be friends.

So we started talking on the phone just a few months ago, and this past weekend, I drove 2 hours to visit her. We had so much fun that I brought her home so our visit could be extended, and she could see my sister too, because she loves her as well. After all, she's travel-sized for my convenience. We didn't stop talking the whole weekend, because we had many years of little stories to catch up on. You know when you go to an annual conference, you never get a chance to fill someone in on all the little details of your year, so you just do the highlights. And I brought her to my church, which of course, she loved. It was like I was 10 years old again...

And for her amusement, and my gas mileage, she wanted to fly in my dad's plane (See "Come Fly With Me..." blog), so we took her home in that. And that was my weekend.

Here are a few pics of us when we were younger. Amazingly I don't have one of me and her together (except on my camera phone), but here's one of me and her brother and one of her brother and her (she's much perkier and more well-rested now than she was in this picture ). Those who are bored can play around in Photoshop and put em together.

Anyway, so sorry I haven't posted my weekly blog yet...or commented on others. I've said it before and I'll say it again...there is never enough time in the day or coffee in the world!

So quick update on my 4th of July, as I hope everyone else had a fabulous freedom celebration (enjoy it while it lasts folks ), and I'm sure I'll read all the fun in the blogs when I get to read em.

My Independence Day was pretty much as I expected. My parents are out of town, so my uncle came over to hang out, and we decided to go and see some fireworks. Of course, he didn't want to miss them so we went at 8, but, much to my dismay, they didn't start till 9. So we sat...in the car....in the pouring rain...for an hour. All the while, he complained that his arm was wet. Considering he was sticking it out the window to smoke a cigarette IN THE RAIN, I wasn't surprised and wasn't able to muster any sympathy. And I, being the incredibly impatient person that I am, proceeded to sing Ella Fitzgerald and Frank Sinatra songs until that got boring. Then I just went full out Olivia de Havilland in The Snake Pit, (his description of me BTW) begging for my freedom from the cage that was his 4 Runner/insane asylum.

Despite all that, the fireworks were loud and lovely. (These are not mine but I imagine fireworks look the same no matter who snaps the photo )



Then of course, when I got home and finally wanted to get back online to work on my emails and chat with folks, alas I discovered....my cable had gone out! And of course, my cable provider is my ISP so yes, no Internet. A fate worse than death. I fell asleep shortly after.

Now I'm here...in a room...with one student and my coworker's kid. Wait, no the student left without me knowing....yeah this is a busy day.

Also, yes I know this blog is getting long, bear with me here, I'm leaving for Nashville tomorrow morning. Yes that's right, my friends and I are driving 13 hours to go to The Call in Nashville, Tennessee. The conference is all day Saturday and then we will drive home another 13 hours on Sunday. Monday, I have asked off from work so I can SLEEP.

I will "see" you all when I return. Have a blessed weekend!

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Yes, First Comment! Interesting Blog. I haven't kept in touch with any of my friends from school and it also makes me sad. I've never heard of "The Call", It sounds very interesting. Have fun.
Posted Jul 5, 2007 7:59 am PT
im still friends with someone i knew since the first grade
Posted Jul 5, 2007 8:02 am PT
The moving all over the place through my school years pretty much killed that possibility for me. My son's best friend has been his best friend since first grade.
Posted Jul 5, 2007 8:08 am PT
ah...

I hate all the friends I had when I was younger... for various reasons. The person I have been friends with the longest I have been friends with since the fourth grade, and we had been fighting since the 5th grade until 10th grade.

I change friends too easily. *Shrugs*

My grandpa complained about getting wet... When I went out to go get him and it was POURING rain he said to me, "It's cold Rayc (he's the originator of that nickname)!" And I just kept my mouth shut and led him inside where he informed me that it was raining.

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Posted Jul 5, 2007 8:19 am PT
I'm not really friends with anyone anymore from then, but anyway: I've never heard of The Call, but have fun.
Posted Jul 5, 2007 8:22 am PT
I'm glad we have so many fond memories of grade school friends, and that some of them are continuing for you. Those were the days! Especially the 5th and 6th grades. Thanks for sharing your photo album-- I have some shots of my childhood friend, Kathy, and I in my mom's living room sooo similar to the ones you've posted. It's that wood paneling background! (Mom still has it hanging in her living room!) I checked out The Call site-- please tell us all about it when you get back. Happy spirituality!
Posted Jul 5, 2007 8:51 am PT
I am going into high school this year, so this might change, but I have generally kept the same friends. My best friends, Abby, and I have been the best of friends since the first day of kindergarten. Have fun!
Posted Jul 5, 2007 9:16 am PT
I'd like to find the girl who was my best friend from Kindergarten through about 4th grade. It's been a long time since I was in grammar school. I'm so glad you and your friend had such a good time. Friends like that are rare. I hope The Call is a great experience for both of you.
Posted Jul 5, 2007 10:28 am PT
Now the pink font makes sense, you had me guessing
Posted Jul 5, 2007 6:46 pm PT
Like black i am going into highschool so will probably lose all my current friends except one i hope. The logest i've know a friend is since i was 3 and i haven't talked to her in about a year. Then my best friend lydia who i had been best friends since kidegarden i haven't seen or heard from since 4th grade. My frind chelsea and i ahve known each other since like first grade but we didn't become friends untill after lydia moved which was in 5th grade and shes the friend i will probably lose in highschool. Have fun!
Posted Jul 6, 2007 1:50 pm PT
i haven't kept in contact with my friends...mostly because things change and people change....there was this one boy who i knew from when i was four...went to high school with but he migrated in 9th grade we talked up to 1o and the early part of 11th grade...the funny thing is we taked more then ...but now...i don't know he sent a mail to me after that huge gap of no talkin, he asked for a reply..i sent him one got nothing...but my e-mail is crappy..sometimes you think u send something...or send it and it doesn't send..i don't know...*sighs*

Anyways CUTE KITTY!!!!!!!!!!!!! PUPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!
SLEEP!!!!!!!!
Posted Jul 6, 2007 2:16 pm PT
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