Dude. I am really sorry, man. I was really happy for you.
I think that the whol "let's be friends"-thing is just her way of dealing. What you need to do is focus on the future, try to think of something that can keep you busy. I know that it sucks now, but you WILL get over it, even though there is no greater pain than that of the heart. At least I'm here for you, Split

Thanks Chris...but, ahhh, I still love her.

I know the feeling,dude. However I don't know how it feels to be loved back. Never being loved by someone sucks almost as badly. I really don't know if the saying "it's better to have loved and lost. Than to never have loved at all." is true or not. I just hope you find a way to get over it.

To be honest, I don't WANT to get over her. She is just the best person I've ever met...and every time I see her I'm happy, even if it was a sucky day. Remember when my parents got divorced? I knew that even if my Dad left, she still loved me...and I loved her...and nothing could change that. And that's how I got through it. But now it's over...and it feels like I've lost the most important person to me. She said I didn't lose her...but I know she doesn't love me like I love her. AAAGGGHHH THIS SUCKS.

Dude, Im really sorry to hear that.. You will Eventually Get over her But believe me, It will take allot of time. You will eventually Say hey, I like her allot but she Wasnt crazy for me like i was For her.. And hey dude, This dont mean its TOTALLY over, I mean there is always that chance that later on whjen your like 17 or so She might Decide you are the right guy And she might Be interested In dating again.. Sorry this happened dude.... I know what a broken heart is like, i had a g/f a few years back that cheated on me with a few Dudes and apparently my friend girl And i really liked her and i told her Every day i loved her and i was crazy about her but she wasnt Happy with me and she said i wasnt enough And i havent dated since.... Ive never had a fair and great g/f though to be honest... Your a great dude. And im sorry For the break up...Hope you start feeling better soon Because a broken heart sucks.

Don't worry about it. Trust me on this one, you'll get over her.

Thing is, you have the right to be sad and take some time to get back on track. Remember that someday you may be on the other end of this crisis and be the dumper instead of the dumped.

Hang in there, the wound will heal. And actually, since we're on Gamespot, for me, one of the things that helps me "unfocus" on anything from my real life is videogames, and that's why I love them. I can just play and forget my troubles for a little while.

As you may know, I'm 26, I had my share of heartbreaks, if there's anything I can do or if you just wanna talk, pm me.

Ugh... I feel for you dude... There was that girl at school, the cutest thing on earth, plus she liked J-Pop, just like me. I started talking to her on msn, she found out I was in love with her, wasn't interested, and a friend of her announced it to me. Thing is I never talked to her after the incident, and she just acts as if I don't exist. *Sigh*, girls...

So I'm pretty much in the same state as you are. You know, trying to forget and all that. I know how hard it is, so if you want to talk about it PM me, I'll give you my msn

Im really sorry. I don't really know what to say, but being her friend is better then nothing. At least you wont compleatly loose her :[

I had a girl friend that cheated on me once or twice I loved her too much to find out, and I acted like nothing happened cause I loved her she was wonderful but then she invited me to church with her I told her "I'm sorrym I'm an aithiest." so she dumped me. I was crushed. I did get over her though I have a new girlfriend who doesn't care I'm aithiest. 1 year later she asked me out again saying "I don't care if your an aithiest, it's you I want." I got to be the won to shoot her down
all though somtimes I still miss her, but then I call my current gril friend

well all of that may make you feel worse but what I'm try to get at is that is that there are plenty of fish in the sea and I think what she did to you was wrong at least when I got dumped she had a reason
hope you feel better

Thanks for all the comments guys...

no problem splitter

i dont know what to say.... thats got to be crushing....

i dont know how you feel and i doubt i can help you but try to move on. i am the ame as peter having never been loved back, hell ive been single my whole lfie.

just hang in there, dont go suicidal on me

wow i feel sry for you just play video games and go with your life act like you never met her but you still love her maybe she was seeing some one else then when you see him KICK HIS ASS just kidding. My bro lost his gf on x mas she brock up with him but they got back OH and please dont go suicidal cause most deaths are cause of love dont i mean it just pucnh your self kidding kidding well hope you find a way out this cause... i got noting.

woah sonic kid, put nicely????? yeah right

You know, I'm not quite sure WHAT to think of that. Punch myself...? Suicide? Who said I was going suicidal??? I'm confused.