... when I had finished up a table at work last night and was picking up the check to close it out when the woman who was sitting there alone came back and left me another piece of paper with her phone number on it. The conversation went pretty much like this:

"Call me sometime."

I replied, "I'm flattered but I'm actually straight."

To which she replied to me, "So am I."

Do you remember the deer in the head lights look, O_O?

That's exactly what my face looked like as she walked off and I saw she left me a $12.00 tip on a $15.40 check. Wowzers.

So that brings me to this point, many of my friends are in that "phase" of exploring their sexuality with other women. I call it a phase because I've seen it happen to many friends of mine who happen to fit the 21-28 demographic. Several of them, ended up settling down and marriying men whom they fell in love with. Hence why I call it a phase. I've never been in that phase before and always have loved men. I've never discriminated either, the one I'm semi-dating now is about 5'10 and chubby but I love it because he is like a big teddy bear.

I've dated men who worked out constantly and have loved their bodies more than me. I've dated fellow gamers like myself but it ended up being like a buddy you could have around to play Halo with, lol. I've just never been interested in women. I mean, of course I think they are attractive for example, Scarlett Johansson is very sexy and beautiful, but that doesn't mean I want to sleep with her. Women can say things like that about other women and not be the slighest bit bi or lesbian-ish.

Men sometimes don't seem to understand that. My "boyfriend" has no problem saying, "You know that guy is actually sharp or handsome looking." I suppose because he is comfortable with his sexuality and knows that doesn't make him bi or gay I digress however, I see this phase happening more and more with women and especially the ones I know. The response I usually get is, "well women just understand women more and they are more sensual." I can agree with that to a point, however there is nothing like having my semi-boyfriend taking me into his arms and giving me a long deep kiss. Women may be more sensual, but sometimes I just want to be thrown around a bit. Ugh, that's not the word. Perhaps, taken charge of? Oh my that doesn't work either.

I'm digging myself a hole here, I'm just going to say that I'm glad there are differences between men and women. Because I like my teddy bear. I like that men don't know women, sure it makes it much more interesting.

Don't forget to leave my tip.