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Sunday, Jul 8, 2007

I'm sorry that it had to come to this, but I guess that's how it has to be. Everyone knows what I'm talking about. But is it really that difficult to hear people out? Is it THAT impossible to listen to other people's opinions? Do you always have to engage in the mudslinging of insults? It's inevitable that someone, or someones in this case, will be offended.

If this is how it is going to be, I'm not so sure I'd like to participate in this forum. When I came to TV.com about a year ago, I was in heaven. Everyone was so nice, so welcoming, and even though there was the occasional debate, it was a healthy debate. It was the kind of debate where Jo and Daley would go at it for hours, before finally agreeing to disagree at least until the next one struck up. There were the debates with Snyder about Chris and Peter, chockfull of imaginary rock throwing and flaming arrows. But there was NEVER anything like this.

I completely understand if you don't have the same opinions as me. That's what forums are for! For discussing, debating, not insults. Even if our opinions differ, we can still get along. What I won't tolerate is someone automatically casting me off as "one of them" just because of something as trivial as a TV show.

As with Addicted and Dramaqueen, I will be taking a break and posting less. I'm not gone for good, just fewer posts. I'll probably be around to welcome Abanana back, and I'm sure she'll be disappointed as well that this happened.

LAW-ORDER

Category: General
Posted by LAW-ORDER, 11:15am
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i agree. everyone has been so mean. it's upsetting.
Posted Jul 8, 2007 4:30 pm PT
I posted this on Drama Queens also. We can not let them get the best of us! Folks, we were set up!!
I feel as us over here on TV.com have been setup by others from another message board. They have purposely come over here to start something and create this tension among us. I feel bad that we bought into it and let them win. Please keep posting, otherwise they have won.
Posted Jul 8, 2007 4:38 pm PT
What do you mean ITPROF4U? I think most of the insults were posted by people that have been here a while...? Elaborate?
Posted Jul 8, 2007 5:00 pm PT
I really don't want to call out anyone, but some are playing for both sides and can seem to be a friend on this board, but are being prodded by the others to start something over here. I'm just waiting for my post on the "what's with the arguing" thread to show up over there. There is definitely a "superiority" complex with some on that board. I guess we all can't live and breath SVU.
Posted Jul 8, 2007 5:17 pm PT
Please tell me that I haven't done anything to offend anyone! I'm afraid that I have, and if I have, PLEASE tell me!!

And I really hope that I see you arounf again soon, LAW-ORDER. I can't beleive that everyone has gone off posting here, because of rude posters... I REALLY hope to see ya around soon!
Posted Jul 9, 2007 2:42 am PT
Trust me, SVUiskool. You didn't offend me at all, you're always super nice!! And I'm just kind of hanging around less... Not gone for good! I'll see you around!
Posted Jul 9, 2007 1:51 pm PT
Phew! I always talk without thinking, so I never know if I say anything wrong!
Posted Jul 9, 2007 2:53 pm PT
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Posted Jul 9, 2007 2:58 pm PT
I really hate this, the people who i am getting close too are all leaving its crap. I really do hope that you hang around even on the blogs. Im gonna miss the funny little hats on your pic! Ive said this to everyone so far, please dont go away for good. Maybe we should start our own forum somewhere else???
Posted Jul 9, 2007 3:16 pm PT
its okay, mandy_gough. the little hats will always be here.
Posted Jul 9, 2007 7:29 pm PT
i agree with ITPROF4U if you go back there are ALOT of weathermen who are posting some really nasty stuff. granted older people have said things they shouldnt have *cough* me *cough* i like the little hats and i hope they do stay....i would miss them if they went and i was even a tiny but of the cause.
Posted Jul 11, 2007 6:28 pm PT
i totally agree. like people get angry for no reason. i hope i didn't say anything to make anyone mad, i try my best to be peaceful. (:
Posted Jul 15, 2007 1:44 pm PT
hey law-order. i just wanted to personally apologize if i offended you in any way. i was the one who made the slogan and i realize now that it is close-minded. i posted there, i'd like to think, before it became really intense (i was gone for a week and half) and i'm just hoping i did not cause your abscence. i actually rewatched screwed to get a better perspective. i realize sarcasm comes off badly on the forums and i truly intend to watch myself from now on. i'm sorry if i was the one who caused you to leave.
mariska143
Posted Jul 15, 2007 8:57 pm PT
Mariska143, thanks so much for apologizing, it really means a lot. Looking back, it kind of just seems like a really small, unimportant argument that just got way too out of hand (considering the fact that I've never met a single one of you!). But everything's fine now, we're good.
Posted Jul 16, 2007 6:33 am PT
Thanks for that. I've been feeling bad because of two things I did and you're the first to, well, absolve me. It does seem like an unimportant argument. Wanna know something funny? Pure EO shippers and El/iv/Porter shippers al have the same letters- EOP. Too bad we never noticed
Posted Jul 16, 2007 8:50 am PT
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