I wish you all to have a great New Year!!!

I hope 2009 will bring all of us the best he has!

I've decided to write some blogs on theme of relationships between a guy and a girl. First of all I would like to apologize for my possible spelling mistakes; my mother tongue is far from English unfortunately.

Today let's talk about some mean ways of getting rid of a guy u don't like/love/whatever (suitable underline) any more. These advice u can also use in a way what not to do in order to save relationships. Girls/Boys u are also welcome to add your comments. The best will be added to the blog in the "Reader's part". We girls (and boys also) feel more comfortable when we are dumped by our date, because dumping is really worse. Some friends even tell their dates the twisted truth, like they have someone, when they in reality is visa verse.

Way №1 – Say the word "relationships" as more times as possible

As a matter of fact guys are subconsciously afraid of this word; they don't even know why it's so horrible but they are already against using this word. U can start your attack with 5-7 words per day, then more and more.

Way 2 – Criticizing his appearance and all the time asking about yours

It's already 2 in 1, boys don't like being criticized (who likes?), just the thought that u don't like something in his appearance makes him crazy. How many times u caught yourself on the thought that your friend is always asking "How Do I Look?" for the tenth/100/1000/… time (suitable underline). The sum up – it's a great way of getting on your boyfriend's nerves.

Way 3 – Ex- Files

I know it's really hard to stand when your boyfriend is telling about his ex/exes, I was always thinking "am I worse than them? If so why he isn't with THEM?" Don't worry. They don't like our past as mush as we love their. Bringing up this theme is as painful as the sweet escape that will be then.

Way 4 – U love acting?

This advice is rather creative and needs some brain work. Have u ever dreamt about being a famous actress, getting Oscar? U have a great chance to try your charm and get the attention of the publicity by playing a jealous wife and next time a party animal or the icy queen. Turn on your best qualities!

Way 5 – It's never enough

U're always calling him to know where he is, what he's doing, what he's going to do, then u start discussing in details your day, your feelings, your wardrobe, the periods that had to come over 2 weeks ago… bla-bla-bla and so on and so forth… Talking … Boys aren't good at it. Sometimes they can't even describe their feeling. SO asking "Honey, what do u feel right now (about me, about us)" would be a good thing to do if u wanna dump him eventually.

P.S. If u want to keep him for some time u have to know that guys like attractive, interesting girls, he has to feel the need in you without telling him this little truth. No one likes a person who always gives way to his/her hang-ups, that always feels hurt, always sermonizes, finds faults with everybody and always looks for the attention. Leave for him and for yourself the decision about the freedom. Don't be too soft but don't show excessive rude or aggressive signs of behavior. Do anything just don't lead to the situation where he's bored. And please don't try to change him.

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Reader's Part

(Reader's experiance is needed )

It was nice sharing my thought with you. Hope u liked the blog. See u soon.

one little problem with tooth became a real disaster....

...for 2 weeks dentists have sent me from one "specialist" to another....

...my left cheek looked like a gigantic pear... it was called a phlegmon of the left-jaw-space and the under-jaw-space...

...last monday I was operated on...

.... the surgery went OK...

...now I'll have a scar on my jaw (on the left side)...

...I'm home and I feel really fine...

... at the hospital during second week I walked a lot, ate a lot, talked a lot (first 2 weeks with that "pear" I couldn't open my mouth even to eat smth so I just drank water and ate jelly and cried, it was really painful to swallow...) and looked really healthy... I made friends with all surgeons and even ogled at some of them (who were very cute )...

I didn't know that after all had happened to me I would miss them...