I Love My Kids, But....

I do love all my kids but they really can give me gray hairs. I always dread opening the Cingular bill. How can someone make 1, 900 phone calls in a month?? Taking the phone away is always fun, Not...Then one says his stomach hurts , has hurt for a month and thinks he has stomach cancer. Ugh! Maybe lay off the Chipotle and Burger King? I want to take him to the doctor but have only one day off left before my new job. And I have to get my car fixed since a lady backed into it. Hey, at least she sent me a check! Nice honest lady.... Why couldn't he tell me this about the pain a few weeks ago?? Anyway, one is going to be a senior in college. He let his drivers license lapse. Great. OK, so he rides his bike every where. He gets into an arguement with a cabbie, who I guess almost ran into him. The cabbie's fault, but why get the cabbie mad who is bigger than you and likes to get out of the cab and come after you and try to pound you? Plus, my son has on...NO HELMET!! Ach...gray hairs sprout like weeds...My friend, Robert, on our JAG site is just now seeing his last child move out after 25 years. I am very envious. Of course even when you are not responsible for them you still worry. But the listening for the door at night, or , is the call I answer going to be that he wrecked the car?, or are they having sex while I am at work? stuff like that will go away at least . As I have said before, all you can do is pray and love them, but the lying awake at 4:00 am is tiresome, just worrying. Can anyone out there relate?