So lately I had feelings for one of my friends. As it turns out, for kicks I went to my Friday football game to see if she'd show up, because even though she has plans, people usually ditch her and she ends up going somewhere else. My gut feeling came through for me. She actually showed up at the game, and I managed to have fun talking to her throughout the entire first half. Then during halftime I told her my feelings toward her.
We talked it over and even my other friend said it was apparant we wouldn't date since she's not ready to, but she understood where I was coming from and she respected that I had actually gotten the courage to tell her, and she respected that I'mactually not a phony like most of all the other kids in our school. After we finished talking things over we joked around again and the second half flew by andwe didn't even pay any attention to the game itself.
Even though we're not dating, we're good friends and funny thing is, because we were alone with no one around us and the fact that we gave each other our numbers before the game ended, people around us might have thought were we dating.
So while we're not together, there's always a way I might change her mind, and just as good is that we're even closer friends than before.
I guess even if you can't get exactly what you set out for, you can still "win" in the end, eh?
Anyway, thought people that I talked to about this would like to know. Everything is resolved and I'm once again happy and ready to go on with my life.
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@Colmillios: That's my goal in life. One is to help others, and the other is to find a girl I can start off as friends with and eventually fall in love with. @JustPlainLucas: She said we'll hang out sometime, and since I don't ditch her, I might grow on her.
@CrimsonMaher: Sarcastic comment? Lemme hear it, I don't think it'll hit me too hard.
i'm sure u will be able to change her mind in the future
just take it slow and enjoy your friendship
@Legolas1204: It's technically not romance since she isn't willing to date.
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