So you think if you set your blog to friends only, then only your friends can read it? Think again. A friend of mine received a TOS violation for flaming on my private blog. None of my friends would ever report each other, so we have assumed it was someone with the ability to see a private blog. And that person was simply trolling around people's private blogs, looking for something to report. I think it says a lot about the powers that be around here, and the changes that have been made to this site. It used to be fun - it used to be friendly - and there used to be trust. So, I've deleted all my blogs to protect my friends as well as myself. There is no "private" any more.