- Amber has been dating Adam Busch, who worked with her on Buffy the Vampire Slayer since 2003. The weird thing is, Adam's character, Warren, killed Amber's character, Tara, in Buffy the Vampire Slayer's 6th season.
- Amber's name only ever appeared in the title credits of Buffy the Vampire Slayer in the episode that she was killed off, "Seeing Red".
- Amber helped write two Buffy the Vampire Slayer comics that revolved around Willow and Tara.
- When she was younger, Amber was part of the Birmingham Children's Theater.
- Amber's pet cat is named Benneton. She owns a pet Dalmatian named Pennsylvania.
- Amber got her drivers license for the first time in the year 2001.
- Amber attended the Alabama Ballet Company.
- Amber made $8,000 per episode while working on Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
- Amber is a vegetarian.
- Amber's sister, Danielle, is an artist.
- To fund her movie Lovers, Liars, and Lunatics, Amber had her own private action figure made from her Buffy the Vampire Slayer character, Tara. Triangle Tara's were only available through Amber, and she signed most of them too.
- Amber has stated that her favorite musician is Jeff Buckley,her favorite movie is Antonia's Line and her favorite episode of "Buffy The Vampire Slayer" is "Restless."
- Amber wrote one of the stories in the Buffy the Vampire Slayer Graphic Novel Tales of the Slayer.
- Amber wrote a series of book with a popular writer of some Buffy the Vampire Slayer novels, Christopher Golden. The book series that they wrote together is titled Ghosts of Albion.
- Amber cast her fellow Buffy the Vampire Slayer cast member, James Marsters, and sister show, Angel, actor Andy Hallett in her movie Chance.
- Amber has worked with some of her Buffy co-stars before Buffy. She worked with Lindsay Crouse (Maggie Walsh) and Eliza Dushku (Faith) in Bye Bye, Love. She also worked with Seth Green (Oz) in the movie Can't Hardly Wait.
- In 2001, Amber wrote, directed, produced, and starred in her own independent film called "Chance." It was presented in 2002 at the Sundance festival.
- Amber Benson has four figures based off her character Tara Maclay. Since the new set of BtVS figures has come out, "Hush Tara," "New Moon Rising Tara," "Willow and Tara, Together Forever," and "Triangle Tara" have been produced.
- Amber: It's just, you know, tough...because you want to say that women are just like guys, and we're all equal. But we're not, we're different. And it's hard to acknowledge that. You want to believe we're all equal, but we have things we're better at, both as individuals and because of our genders. There are things that women are better at... like having children.
- Amber: It was much easier to write Willow's stuff than Tara's. I think Chris had to go in and kind of doctor some of the Tara dialogue. I was just too...it was very difficult. I could write about her, but writing the dialogue was tough.
- Amber: Oh, man... for twenty bucks you can sleep on me.
- Amber: The only way that Joss could get Willow's character to that level of desperation was to take the one thing away from her that she loved which was Tara. As awful as it was, he was really trying to put the message out that Willow's problem with magic was a allegory for drug abuse.
- Amber: If I liked girls, I’d be a very happy camper. I’ve gotten some wonderful letters, and they’ve assured me that if I decide to play for the other team, I’ll have a place.
- Amber: It's funny, because everybody on Buffy the Vampire Slayer thought I was really quiet and shy until they got to know me. Everyone thinks that I'm tall and fat and shy. I'm like, 'Well, I'm short and I'm slender and I'm very outgoing.'
- Amber: I like to sing low, and Joss made Under Your Spell really high. I wasn't sure how it was going to work, but once we went in and recorded it, I knew it was going to be good.
- Amber: I love meeting people. It wears you out, but it was a good experience all the way around. Everybody else's fans are really cool too, but I truly believe that out of everybody on Buffy, my fans are the coolest.
- Amber: I've gotten the most amazing letters from young women who have come out because of the relationship that Tara and Willow had on Buffy. If you can make an impact on society in a positive way, it's the most amazing experience.
- Amber: The day started and I knew my name and had my pants on. So far, so good. Yay!
- Amber: I'm known as the fat lesbian chick on Buffy. Of course I mean you stand me next to an actress like Sarah and I look like I'll eat her. Wait, that didn't sound right. But, you know what I mean.
- Amber: Very rarely do I get the opportunity to get something creepy like the bad guy. You kind of have to dig deep inside to find the weird person in yourself.
